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Group Coaching FAQ
Hey-- Craig here,
At this point, if you haven’t joined Jaunty Group Coaching it’s probably for one big reason:
You think it’s too risky.
Even though we have a 90 day money back guarantee, with the only requirement being that you show me that you’ve done the step-by-step assignments, you’re still on the fence.
(And if you’re wondering why I have that condition on the guarantee, it’s because I know our system works for everyone who puts in the effort. And I don’t want you to join unless you’re truly committed to getting results.)
So maybe you still have a few lingering questions on your mind that you need answered. Fair enough.
I compiled a few of the most common questions we’ve been getting below. I wanted to answer them here to dispel some of the biggest misconceptions about the social intelligence program is.
Question 1: “I am really anxious and shy… will I be able to participate?”
You might be thinking, “I’m awkward and I’m apprehensive about the exercises and assignments of the class.”
That’s a pretty common thought, but I want to clarify that we’ve worked with people who were literally agoraphobic--- afraid to leave their houses.
The curriculum is set up in a way that there’s always something that you can work on at your own pace.
I give guidance on assignments, but you set your target goals with them, so it is tailored to you.

An example of homework assignments.
In the program, we take the approach to slowly expand your comfort zone. I will never ask you to jump out of the frying pan and into the fire. In fact, that wouldn’t be good for long-term results.
Jaunty Group Coaching is built to slowly expose you to social tension as you build up a tolerance through exposure (Dialectical Behavior Therapy techniques) and to give you the skills to handle the situations you will be in.
We start in the coaching session to practice and then take things into your everyday life. You will use skills that you learn in interactions that you are already regularly having. After that, we teach you to create new interactions with the approach.
This method has gotten thousands of our students to expand their comfort zones and their social anxieties.
If it worked for them, it will work for you.
Question 2: “I’m an extrovert already and have lots of friends. How will this class benefit me?”
Everyone has something they’re good at, but there are always blind spots.
You may be great with hanging out in big groups with your friends, but what about situations where you don’t know anybody?
Maybe you’re good with smalltalk, but making a deeper connection is hard.
Or you’re fine with friends, but flirtation and dating are hard.
And maybe you are decent socially already, but there could always be improvement. This course will give you the tools to become a real social dynamo.
From casual conversation, to making friends, to dating, to networking and negotiation-- everything we teach at Jaunty has an application in either context. Part of the course is to show you the context in which you can use these skills, and the goal of the class is this:
-Build a baseline of skills to handle any social situation with fluency.
This could be your edge on all the other extroverts who are naturally good with people. Because a natural without knowledge has limited potential, but a natural who knows they can get better… there’s no telling what you can do.
Question 3: “Does this work in countries other than the US?”
Many people I’ve worked with come from different cultures who have vastly different cultural expectations socially.
Someone from Brazil is very comfortable with touching a stranger- even kissing cheeks when meeting new people, but someone from Japan won’t be so comfortable with touch.
So with our background being in the US, is this stuff only relevant to people in the US?
No.
Everything we are teaching is grounded in psychology and human behavior research. At the base of all communication is human behavior, and we put culture on top of that.
Everything we teach at Jaunty is in the context of human behavior, and is universal.
For instance, one of the skillsets we teach is High Status Humor. We don’t teach comedy or jokes-- these are cultural. But we teach you how to come up with statements that are humorous because of what they imply about you.

“Misinterpretation humor”
If I saw someone meditating in the park with a brass meditation bowl, and I went up to them with a big smile and put a dollar in the bowl like they were panhandling, it would be silly in any culture. My smile gives it away, so the other person knows I’m being silly. And it doesn’t matter if I’m in India or in the UK, it would be seen as an attempt to be funny.
Sure, there are cultural expectations of what’s proper and what’s not, but when we’re interacting on a personal level, those things dissolve quite a bit.
In short, culture isn’t an issue.
Question 4: “I don’t think I’m that attractive. Are you sure this doesn’t just work for you because you’re a good looking guy?”
This is the one people are afraid to ask me to my face.
Let me say this in all caps: YOUR PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS DOES NOT MATTER WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTING PEOPLE SOCIALLY. If we were talking about being a Hollywood actor, then I would say it does matter.
However, when it comes to socially attracting others, people want to be around you because of your vibe. Pretty people can only get so far.
If you make someone feel good while they’re talking to you, you can look like a grouper (it’s a sad looking fish) and people will still want to be around you!
I’ve had students whom were not conventionally attractive…
-- fat, acne, sloppily dressed, and even smell kind of weird--
...that I coached and physically watched start conversations with strangers on the street, get their phone numbers, and plan a date!
It doesn’t matter what you look like. There is someone to love everyone. Like, you see couples sometimes and think they’re in different leagues. Why would looks matter when it comes to connecting with someone who loves you as a person?
I have social students of every size,color, age, and orientation, and that’s why I love it so much. Anyone can become a social dynamo!
Once you get into the Jaunty Group Coaching, you’ll be supported by a community of people who will be there for you. If you’re feeling a little nervous, don’t worry-- the group is meant to be a team! You can reach out and ask your questions or share your experience, and we'll be there to support you.
Question 5: “This doesn’t work if you have no time, right? I’m a student/ I work full-time.”
I get it, you have a lot going on. Maybe you have a full-time job or two. Maybe you’re still in school. Maybe you just don’t want to spend all your free time on going out and meeting new people.
The best part of Jaunty Group Coaching is that fact that you only need about 1-2 hours PER WEEK to get started.
If you can dedicate 1 hour to the sessions and at least 20 minutes to implementing the skills into your daily interactions (no extra time investment), you can do this.
As stated before, you set your own homework goals-- so whatever is achievable for you.. And as these are social skills, most of the things you’ll be assigned, can be accomplished in your everyday conversations.
Think about it like this: If someone were to try to learn these skills without this system, they would spend HOURS upon hours researching online. They’d make tons of mistakes figuring out what works and what doesn’t.
Aside from that, they would have to learn the skills by trial and error in the real world, and frankly, they’d be wasting a lot of time.
Time that could be better spent.
By following Jaunty’s step-by-step process + assignments, you won’t waste any time. You’ll get a warm-up of the skills in class, and you’ll know exactly what to do right away.
That’s why initially you only need to spend 1-2 hours per week. Then, once you start getting results, you’re gonna have to spend more time because your social calendar will be filling up!
Maybe you’ve got a busy schedule and things could be hard to squeeze…
But what will happen if you don’t put time into this? Where will you be in 6 months?
Still in the same place? With the same people (or lack thereof)? And with the same dating or career opportunities?
If you want things to be different in 6 months-- heck in 2 months-- right now is a good time to take action. I truly feel bad for the people who decide to put this off for later. The big thing they don’t realize is the fact that this opportunity to come out into 2024 with a social edge WILL NOT last forever.
Now, let’s be real: You’re opening all of these emails. You just read through the FAQ about Jaunty Group Coaching. And you know that we have a 90-day money back guarantee, with the only condition being that you actually do the assignments and tell me about it.
Clearly, you want to enroll and now you’re at a point where you’re trying to look for reasons NOT to take action.
I’m not going to give you that excuse. I won’t allow you to let your fear of failure (or maybe it’s your fear of success…) stop you from living the social life you want.
So click here and enroll NOW while you still can.
Enrollment closes in 3 days. And I’m not planning on opening it again for my TikTok people for a while.
Craig