As you grow, so do your goals.

When I was young and just starting out in the world of communication and social skills, the only thing that mattered to me was that I could get a girlfriend.

It was something that I felt was important, but I knew that I had no idea how to even attract a young woman.

As I studied the theory of communication and practiced the art of social skills, that original goal of getting a girlfriend became realized.

And then I had a breakup. So I did it again.. and again...

And I realized at that point that I had no problem getting a girlfriend anymore. If I really wanted one, I could get one.

I've had plenty of amazing girlfriends and dating experiences, and the thing that once mattered most to me became so much of an abundance in my life that it was no longer the most important thing to me.

With that change in paradigm, I found that there were other things I wanted that I could improve at.

Over the course of the next decade, I tested the limits of what is capable socially.

I've approached and charmed stranger after stranger. I've talked my way into VIPs and private executive meetings. I've become a leader. I've managed communities. I've influenced the culture of multiple organizations. I've built teams and I've coached high performers. I've networked and negotiated. I've gone viral. I've made the deepest connections in the unlikeliest of places.

It's all possible.

You can do it too.

Are you aiming high enough? What should you be doing that you aren't?

I really want to know.